π Stress-free Fadder Week: how to choose activities and not "drop out"
π§© How fadderuke works
Fadderuke is an orientation week at Norwegian universities (UiO, UiB, NTNU, HVL, etc.) when first-year students are divided into buddy groups.
The goals of the week are to
β to familiarise students with the campus and each other,
β to give them a social start and a sense of belonging,
β to introduce clubs, societies and services.
π But participation is not 100% mandatory β you have the right to choose only those events that you feel comfortable with.
πΊοΈ Map of options
Fadderuke includes a wide variety of activities:
β π€ concerts and parties,
β π² board games, quizzes, book clubs,
β ποΈ walks, city tours,
β π Sports and team games.
π For introverts, it is ideal to combine 1β2 large events with more relaxed gatherings.
π‘οΈ Safety and boundaries
It is important to remember:
β β You are not obliged to participate in all events.
β β you can leave early or choose alcohol-free activities,
β β οΈ Respect your own boundaries and let your buddy leaders know if you need a break.
π Tip: think about your "exit strategies" in advance (e.g., "I'm only staying until 10 p.m." or "I reserve the right to leave").
π§ββοΈ Samskipnad support
Student Samskipnadas (SiO, Sammen, Sit) offer:
β psychological support,
β counselling on stress and adaptation,
β social groups for international students.
Don't be afraid to reach out β many people feel stressed at the beginning.
π Day 1
Registration + buddy group intro
π Day 2
Campus tour (calm format)
π Day 3
Board games evening
π Day 4
City walk + coffee
π Day 5
Rest (skip the party)
π Day 6
Sports day
π Day 7
Concert or club fair
β οΈ Signs of overload
- π΄ Constant fatigue
- π€― Irritability
- π Lack of motivation to join events
- π€ Sleep problems
π If you notice several symptoms β take a break and reach out to your buddy group or student welfare organisation.
Fadderuke is not a test of extroversion β it's an incredible opportunity to adapt! Finding your balance is so important for introverts! Choose the right formats, listen to yourself and make the most of the amazing support of Samskipnad.
π Here's a great tip: make a plan in advance and keep your buddy leader close by so that Fadder week is a joyful experience rather than a stressful one.
FAQ
No. You decide which activities are right for you.
Take a break, choose only calm activities, or skip a day.
Contact the buddy leaders or the Samskipnada psychological support service.
