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πŸŽ‰ Stress-free Fadder Week: how to choose activities and not "drop out"

🧩 How fadderuke works

Fadderuke is an orientation week at Norwegian universities (UiO, UiB, NTNU, HVL, etc.) when first-year students are divided into buddy groups.

The goals of the week are to

● to familiarise students with the campus and each other,

● to give them a social start and a sense of belonging,

● to introduce clubs, societies and services.

πŸ“Œ But participation is not 100% mandatory β€” you have the right to choose only those events that you feel comfortable with.

πŸ—ΊοΈ Map of options

Fadderuke includes a wide variety of activities:

● 🎀 concerts and parties,

● 🎲 board games, quizzes, book clubs,

● 🏞️ walks, city tours,

● 🏐 Sports and team games.

πŸ‘‰ For introverts, it is ideal to combine 1–2 large events with more relaxed gatherings.

πŸ›‘οΈ Safety and boundaries

It is important to remember:

● ❌ You are not obliged to participate in all events.

● βœ… you can leave early or choose alcohol-free activities,

● ⚠️ Respect your own boundaries and let your buddy leaders know if you need a break.

πŸ“Œ Tip: think about your "exit strategies" in advance (e.g., "I'm only staying until 10 p.m." or "I reserve the right to leave").

πŸ§‘β€βš•οΈ Samskipnad support

Student Samskipnadas (SiO, Sammen, Sit) offer:

● psychological support,

● counselling on stress and adaptation,

● social groups for international students.

Don't be afraid to reach out β€” many people feel stressed at the beginning.

πŸ“… Day 1

Registration + buddy group intro

πŸ“… Day 2

Campus tour (calm format)

πŸ“… Day 3

Board games evening

πŸ“… Day 4

City walk + coffee

πŸ“… Day 5

Rest (skip the party)

πŸ“… Day 6

Sports day

πŸ“… Day 7

Concert or club fair

⚠️ Signs of overload

  • 😴 Constant fatigue
  • 🀯 Irritability
  • πŸ™… Lack of motivation to join events
  • πŸ’€ Sleep problems

πŸ“Œ If you notice several symptoms β€” take a break and reach out to your buddy group or student welfare organisation.

Fadderuke is not a test of extroversion – it's an incredible opportunity to adapt! Finding your balance is so important for introverts! Choose the right formats, listen to yourself and make the most of the amazing support of Samskipnad.

πŸ“Œ Here's a great tip: make a plan in advance and keep your buddy leader close by so that Fadder week is a joyful experience rather than a stressful one.

FAQ

❓ Is it mandatory to attend everything?

No. You decide which activities are right for you.

❓ What should I do if I feel burnt out?

Take a break, choose only calm activities, or skip a day.

❓ Where can I find help if I'm having a hard time?

Contact the buddy leaders or the Samskipnada psychological support service.

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