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🎉 Stress-free Fadder Week: how to choose activities and not "drop out"

🧩 How fadderuke works

Fadderuke is an orientation week at Norwegian universities (UiO, UiB, NTNU, HVL, etc.) when first-year students are divided into buddy groups.

The goals of the week are to

● to familiarise students with the campus and each other,

● to give them a social start and a sense of belonging,

● to introduce clubs, societies and services.

📌 But participation is not 100% mandatory — you have the right to choose only those events that you feel comfortable with.

🗺️ Map of options

Fadderuke includes a wide variety of activities:

● 🎤 concerts and parties,

● 🎲 board games, quizzes, book clubs,

● 🏞️ walks, city tours,

● 🏐 Sports and team games.

👉 For introverts, it is ideal to combine 1–2 large events with more relaxed gatherings.

🛡️ Safety and boundaries

It is important to remember:

● ❌ You are not obliged to participate in all events.

● ✅ you can leave early or choose alcohol-free activities,

● ⚠️ Respect your own boundaries and let your buddy leaders know if you need a break.

📌 Tip: think about your "exit strategies" in advance (e.g., "I'm only staying until 10 p.m." or "I reserve the right to leave").

🧑‍⚕️ Samskipnad support

Student Samskipnadas (SiO, Sammen, Sit) offer:

● psychological support,

● counselling on stress and adaptation,

● social groups for international students.

Don't be afraid to reach out — many people feel stressed at the beginning.

📅 Day 1

Registration + buddy group intro

📅 Day 2

Campus tour (calm format)

📅 Day 3

Board games evening

📅 Day 4

City walk + coffee

📅 Day 5

Rest (skip the party)

📅 Day 6

Sports day

📅 Day 7

Concert or club fair

⚠️ Signs of overload

  • 😴 Constant fatigue
  • 🤯 Irritability
  • 🙅 Lack of motivation to join events
  • 💤 Sleep problems

📌 If you notice several symptoms — take a break and reach out to your buddy group or student welfare organisation.

Fadderuke is not a test of extroversion – it's an incredible opportunity to adapt! Finding your balance is so important for introverts! Choose the right formats, listen to yourself and make the most of the amazing support of Samskipnad.

📌 Here's a great tip: make a plan in advance and keep your buddy leader close by so that Fadder week is a joyful experience rather than a stressful one.

FAQ

❓ Is it mandatory to attend everything?

No. You decide which activities are right for you.

❓ What should I do if I feel burnt out?

Take a break, choose only calm activities, or skip a day.

❓ Where can I find help if I'm having a hard time?

Contact the buddy leaders or the Samskipnada psychological support service.

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    Naily
    Dette høres kjempegøy ut! 😄🎉 Perfekt måte å bli kjent med både campus og nye venner på. Elsker at man kan velge aktiviteter etter hva man føler seg komfortabel med – gir en trygg start på studiene! 📚🤝✨